• THINK FIRST ABOUT SATISFYING YOURSELF

I don’t know if men do this out of selfishness, laziness or ignorance. Whatever it is putting your needs last will get you better sex, satisfaction and a better reputation amongst women.

First thing your should be doing is trying to understand what she likes. Some love oral sex, others hate it (although quite rare). Some like it hard, some like it slow, most like both. As all women are different first thing you need to understand is what they enjoy the most, satisfy their needs first and then think about yours. Most likely if you please her, she will please you back. If she doesn’t that might give you a hint about her selfish personality.

• FORCING YOUR WAY INTO NOT USING CONDOMS

Condoms suck, we all know it, even women. I’ve met women that asked not to use condoms, others demanded it. Respect the girl’s opinion, if you don’t she will either obey but sex will suck and will hate you for it or she will run away. First try to sense her feeling towards unprotected sex before tempting a bold move. Rubbing your dick against her pussy and slowly going down towards her vagina is usually the quickest ways to understand. If she wants condoms she will ask for it, and you must respect that.

I once met a girl with whom we started to do it with condom. She was on top of me, said “I hate condoms” and just ripped off the condom. I sort of felt violated because she didn’t even ask for my opinion. Ok fine… I was happy she removed it. If I were condom-addicted I would have freaked out and thrown her out of my appartment. Same applies for women.

• TALKING DIRTY IN BED

Careful about talking too much in bed. Most women find it ridiculous. I would give a ratio of 20% that actually like talking dirty in bed. When I ask a woman what her worst experience with a man is they often say : “I once met a man who was constantly asking if I liked it, if it was good”. if you try to talk dirty to a woman do it wisely, avoid the stupid “do you like my big dick” (although some like it) but whisper slowely in her ear erotic stuff to turn her on.

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• GET HER TO GO ANAL TOO QUICKLY

Women need confidence, often feelings to go anyware towards that spot. Definitly don’t force it, take it slow. If a woman likes anal she will let you give her a rim job. If she doesn’t let you give her a rim job, it doesn’t neceseraly mean that she doesn’t like anal but she might be still uncomfortable doing that or just not feel clean enough.

Get your tongue down there while going under. If you feel rejection wait until next time and talk about it before doing it again. Sometimes talking about it will get her more secure about your intentions and she will let you do it.

• SHOWING INSECURITY

That’s actually not trully a mistake but something that you get your hands on with experience. It’s one of the first things women run away from. If you start off showing a lack of confidence, if you’re trembling, for example taking hours to remove her bra she will already be thinking: “I’ve got to get away from this, end it quickly, a little bit of overplaying and it’s a done deal”. My answer to this is quite simple: fuck as many women as you can, gain experience and that lack of confidence will disappear.

TheNonsenser

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