Believe me I have tried to get women to squirt so many times and I’ve done so much work to make it happen that I actually doubt that female ejaculation exists, I need to see things for myself to believe it. High lubrication happens but that’s not what I call female ejaculation. So is it a myth? I personally don’t know but I’m sure some of you could add your personal experience.
A few years back I was in a girl’s car that I had just met a couple of hours earlier. We were on the parking lot of a club doing our thing. I was trying out all the recommendations about how to get a girl to squirt. After probably 30 minutes of g-spot massaging & clitoris licking: boy was she getting wet. The car seat butt cushion was soaking wet. We had sex afterwards but I think she had nothing in her anymore she was as dry as camel’s butt (no idea if camel butts are dry). So was it female ejaculation? Maybe but the actual act of squirting I did not witness. So that’s not a winner.
The concept of squirting is the following: you get progressively one then 2 fingers within you gf’s vagina and you rub the internal part of the clitoris (it does feel like a spongy surface). You start with a soft rub and increase as pleasure shifts. I have tried this a million times with many different girls. Some of them feel discomfort, some reach orgasms, some get really wet but none of them reached ejaculation. I have been reading about this topic for years. If I’m in this position today I guess that i’m not the only one wondering if this is just a made up story to write books, articles and sell more porn (squirting is faked in porn with whatever squirting device they insert).
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Am I doing it wrong? Do I date inexperienced women? Both are possible, I probably don’t have the science right. I have been dating only women under their 30′s, does it mean that I need to target older? Maybe I should just ask women that i meet if she squirts before asking for her name… That’s probably not going to be very effective… I’ll keep you posted and will surely let you know if I find the holly grail…
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