This in an interview of a friend of mine. She will give her opinion about seduction and sex. More interviews can be found here

• EXPLAIN WHAT YOU YOU DO WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE

I work in finance. I’m tall with straight blond hair and green eyes.

• HOW DO YOU SEDUCE MEN

When I want to seduce a man, I need to feel confident and comfortable in my skin. I try to be myself because he has to like me the way I am.

I like to create intimacy with an intense, flirting eye contact and a genuine smile. Body language is key. I like to be close enough to be able to touch him subtly.

I give him attention and show admiration when it’s sincere.

I am playful and flirting without showing him I’m looking for someone. I don’t talk too much about myself or about my exes and I’m expecting the same from him. And if the seduction leads to a relationship, it is important to keep on seducing him and vice versa.

• DESCRIBE PRECISELY YOUR IDEA OF THE PERFECT MAN IN BED

The perfect man in bed according to me is making desire increase slowly, caressing all my body. He’s not touching my parts too quickly and he’s spending a lot of time on foreplays. Not too strong on my tits which are very sensitive.

During sex, he’s alternately firm and gentle while being in control and dominant.
He’s not switching positions too quickly and too often and he’s staying aware of what I enjoy. It is a shared experience, he’s not focusing on his own pleasure only. In order for me to know what he likes, he’s expressing what he feels by talking or groaning. Words are pretty powerful before, during and after sex relations.

When the position allows it, he’s doing a lot of sexy kissing especially on my lips, my tits and in my neck. He’s able to start again quickly after and cuddle after sex. It’s nice to be awaken in the middle of the night by his desire. The length is not important, when it lasts too much time, desire decreases.

The guy makes me feel at ease and comfortable to make me lose control and he keeps it as a game.

Sex is nice outside bed too, he likes to take some risks. 

ThinKover